Stop and Smell the Roses

Have you ever walked down the street and as a light breeze blows by you smell a very pleasant aroma? I think many people have had this experience which leads to this question. Have you ever bothered to find out where the scent originated? Which tree, bush, or flower produced that noticeable aroma? Everyone has probably heard that you should take time to smell the flowers. Though this means different things to different people, it is very good advice. 

Most people can agree that there are flowers that have very refreshing or even soothing aromas. If you engage in aromatherapy you will find that the fragrances of certain plants are thought to relax people or relieve their anxiety. When you literally stop to smell the flowers, you direct your attention elsewhere and focus on something pleasant. You slow down. 

It will not fix what causes the anxiety, but may help you feel like yourself again; if only for a short time.

Physically taking the time to smell the flowers can help you in this busy, confusing, and sometimes dark world we live in. “Smelling the roses” is something we should do in our everyday lives. To be a fearless Lover is to manage a situation without your pride. Taking time to approach with love and compassion.

What Can Happen When You Become a Fearless Lover?

To answer this question, you must know how to achieve the goal first. If you are in an argument or experience conflict with another person, you may be tempted to say or do something that you come to regret later. The first step on the ladder to this goal is to turn the other cheek. 

Conflict involves two people. When one says or does something, the way the other person reacts determines what happens next. This is your opportunity to move in love and compassion.

Romans 12;17-19 says To no man render evil for evil, but provide good things not only in the sight of God but in the sight of all men. If it be possible… be at peace with all men. In other words, turn the other cheek. That does not mean that you should do or say nothing, but it does mean that you should overcome evil with good, not meet evil with evil. 

At this point, you could forgive the other person or acknowledge that you understand where they are coming from then go on to explain your side. Many conflicts arise because the participants can’t see the problem from the other’s point of view. If they can remedy this, they can frequently solve the problem rather than escalate it. It takes patience and love.

If you are the person who goes to the second rung of the ladder which is to offer to work on a solution, you come out of it looking good to any who witnessed it and you look good to yourself and God. This is how you live as a fearless Lover.

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I Love You all! Until next time #ChooseLove #ChoiceLove

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